Dear Hobie, Please remember that you and your family have a very special place in my heart and in all of the hearts of those of us who work at Catholic Charities! We know we cannot enter all that you feel nor can we bear with you the burden of your pain. However we offer our love, our strength in caring, and the warmth of our hearts. Please know that as you walk the lonely path of your grief that we are by your side God bless you, my friend! Gene